I find that so often I'm on the defensive when people are dismissive or negative about Phish...As if it were a family member they were insulting I get exasperated and can't make much of an argument until after the fact when I can clear my head...I always admired Harris' ability to take a breath and try to relate to people who will likely never change their minds despite their willful ignorance. I admired him for that, and his comic prowess. So sad. Don't want to dwell on the negative but it is a big drag on our scene. Please be careful everyone.